The Unashamed Introvertish Girl Returns......
For those interested in taking a look into the eye
of a reserved soul,
I’ve been behind on writing and there is so much to
be told. I am truly sorry for the delay
and I will try my best to catch up on the things that I missed. One of my earliest experiences was going to
the mall with my roommates and one of my roommate’s friends. This was around the first or second week of
school (college:). One of my roommates
has a car and another loves to shop, so off we went to the local mall which
happens to be about 6 minutes away driving and 15 minutes away walking. When we got to the mall, it wasn’t really a
social thing like I thought it might be.
Each girl went their separate ways and rarely spoke. It was like some type of shopping trance
which, once I think about it isn’t completely surprising for eighteen year old
girls. I didn’t speak much during this
venture to the mall, but I did manage to tell one of my roommates that she had
a very nice car (You can’t say I didn’t try), and a few other phrases. The only social awkwardness that came was
when everyone else was still shopping and I was finished. I went to the mall expecting to buy only a
few things that I absolutely needed, but everyone else basically saw it as a
shopping spree. I guess that something
to keep in mind when you plan on going shopping with others is telling them
your intent. It doesn’t have to be a
majorly formal discussion, but a conversation where you know just enough to
know what you’re getting yourself into.
In my spare, non-shopping moments, I did manage to see a few other
people from school and say hi. I even
joined a group of people who were also not shopping at the moment; they were
sitting towards the front of the store. Even
though this was just a simple trip to the mall, which many of us have done what
may seems like thousands of times before, I learned something. From my very first trip to the mall with
peers, I learned the importance of trial and error living. When I say trial and error living, I don’t mean
making careless decisions that can have dangerous repercussions or negative effects,
I mean taking chances that you may not ever get again or may not come around
again for years. So the next time you
get a great social opportunity that you want to take but are crippled by fear
of what awkward social interactions may ensue or what others may say about you
and your beautifully reserved personality, remember that God made you this way
for a reason and that a situation like this may not come around again for a
long time. In remembering this, keep in
mind the intentions of the company that requests your presence, where this
group/person is asking you to go, and what you all will actually do. Safety is primary when it comes to choosing
social situations and even friends. You
can do it and it is definitely worth it in the end!
With New Knowledge,
Unashamed
Introvertish Girl
p.s. I know
introvertish is not officially a word ;)
~Stay tuned for a video review of upcoming topics!~
Getting Settled into University
Getting
Settled into University
Good Day
Introverts, Reserved Ones and All Visitors,
I know that
I haven’t posted in a while, but just know that I do care, I am still an
introvert and a reserved individual. I’m
actually writing this from my dorm. I’m finally here in college! Yay! I’m actually in my dorm room alone, everyone
else is at a party. They were nice and
thoughtful enough to invite me, but totally respected the fact that I didn’t
want to go. Just know, I’m about to
enter into night two and honestly, college can be tough on an introvert. Everyone is so open and social skills are a
big thing. It’s nothing to worry about,
it just takes some time to adjust to. I’ve
taken minni risks on small things like going to restaurants with people from my
floor who I don’t know completely and starting conversations with random
people. I’ll admit, orientation is kind
of an all up in your face kind of thing, but it’s all for the purpose of
getting to know one another. So far it’s
okay, it’s good. Despite the fact that I
am still socializing and being my full self, people have already labeled me
pretty much the same way they did in high school, shy, quiet, soft-spoken etc;
however, it’s something different about the labeling this time. It’s easier to handle because I have embraced
who I am. Not that I’m letting people
define me, but I am being comfortable in my own skin. Tomorrow I meet with my advisor where we will
discuss what changes I will make with my academics. I want to be challenged more academically. I miss all of my family and friends. There are about 4,000 new freshmen here at my
school, but I’m staying focused on what’s important, and I’m making it. I also now realize how much I really love and
appreciate God. He’s right here with
me. He always has been and always will
be. Have a great week at school, work,
or where ever you’re starting your week! More updates about my college
experience are on the way!
Keeping God
First,
Unashamed
Introvertish Girl
Collegiate Experiences: Why So Excited?
Collegiate Experiences: Why So Excited?
In fourteen days, I will be going off to college for
the first time. The college that I am
attending has a large campus and a large population. On the small, medium, and large scale, it’s a
large. My university is made up of over
20,000 students ready to get the adult part of their lives started. I will be living in a sixteen story tower and
sharing a room with two girls that I have never met in person before in my
life. It’s exciting to finally be able
to learn more about my career choice, but a little nerve racking at the same
time. Today I saw something on my college
class of 2017’s Facebook page that seemed very realistic and interesting to
me. Amidst everyone expressing how
excited and ready they are to start their college lives, there was one girl
that expressed that she was a little nervous and not completely ready. In response to that, an older member of the
university informed her that she was most likely not the only one feeling that
way. He believed that many of us college
freshman felt that way, but were just hiding those feeling behind those of preparedness
and audaciousness. Everyone has
nervousness when starting something new, especially school, but the thing to
remember for introverts and reserved ones is to not let your nervousness consume
you and keep you from accomplishing simple goals. Another thing to remember is that, although
we are the type of people who are fine without conversing, being to ourselves
and not having many words to say, it’s important not to let nervousness define
you and become your name. Yes, you may
be an introvert or a demure person, but your much more that than. So enjoy life without putting limitations on
things you’ll excel at or enjoy by naming yourself nervous. I’m about to delve deeper into the field of
multimedia (print, broadcast, and online) journalism which is not at all for
one who considers themselves shy or an introvert. The only way I am honestly able to do this is
by acknowledging the gifts that God has given me despite my personality
type. I realize that if God has given me
this gift, than he has also given me the courage to pursue this gift. That’s my opinion, belief, and personal
knowledge, and I know it’s true. Take nervousness
off of your name tag and tell us your real name.
With Strong
Compulsion,
Unashamed
Introvertish Girl
Prom Part Two
Prom Part Two
Good Day Introverts, Reserved Ones and All Visitors
as all are welcome,
Today I will finish up the discussion about my
experience at prom. To access Part One
of this topic, refer to my previous post.
After we saw my friend from a class that I had my eleventh grade year,
we saw that we were not the first ones there, but among the first. She greeted us with a smile and we conversed
lighted for a few minutes. We sat down
in the lobby area of the prom until we were allowed to go in. I wasn’t sure what to expect before I left
home, but I knew that this was going to be a good night. Nothing could ruin my prom night. I figured that since I was there I might as
well have a good time. From the balcony
we watched others pull up in various types of limos and antique cars. We saw several different types of dresses, tuxedos
and suits of all different types of styles, colors and designs. At 9:00 the teachers who assisted with the
prom told us that we could go in. We
were the first three people in the room.
The room was full of tables and decorated with accents of blue and green. The dance floor was in the center of the room
surrounded by tables and a slideshow was in one corner. In another corner a man
stood behind a counter serving blue soft drinks. Toward the edge of the dance floor, the food
buffet stood with smoke coming from each dish. Next we went to vote and then take pictures
which is where we started to see more of our classmates, many of them unrecognizable
out of their uniform. As time went by
the room began to fill with excited seniors.
Everyone was extremely nice that night and glad to see one other. The
night was full of smiles, hugs and complements among students. It’s something about prom night that brings
everyone together. As a reserved person,
I appreciated the kind mood because it eliminated fear and nervousness. It was easy to start conversations and move
around the room. I was grateful that I was
able to see my old friend because I had someone that I felt comfortable talking
to and that encouraged me to participate in the nights events. I danced a little toward the back of the dance
floor because there was a lot less people in the back than in any other
area. The serious dancers were in the middle. Towards the end of the night, the DJ played
many familiar dance songs which was my favorite part of the night. I ended up dancing near two other friends
that I had met over the last four years.
I was able to be my same introvertish, reserved self throughout the night
and still enjoy myself. I even engaged
in discussion for longer periods of time than usual. Prom night taught me that you should never
go outside of your own character or personality in order to accomplish a
goal. You’ll end up lost and
unaccomplished. No one can be a better
you than you. Discover who you are be
that person to the fullest. Appreciate
yourself no matter how different you are than everyone else, because you are
who you are.
With Great Memories,
Unashamed Introvertish
Girl
Prom Part One
Prom Part One
Good Day Introverts, Reserved Ones and All Visitors,
Today’s entry is a topic that I had been saying that I would talk about for a long time. Today I want to talk to you about that one event that seems so far away when you enter high school as a freshman. Its that illustrious day that’s portrayed on television sets everywhere as the “best day ever!” Yeah, that day that seems so surreal, that you say to yourself as you get ready, “Am I really here? Am I really about to graduate?” Today I want to talk to you about my experience at prom. I have given you snippets of information about how it was in general and for me, but I have never dedicated an entire post to prom. So here it goes. The official last day of school during my senior year happened to be the same day as prom, May 17th. The last two weeks of high school were very exhausting and monotonous. I spent the last two weeks of school completing standardized tests in order to get college credit. During this time, I was also finishing up one of many very rigorous projects that also went towards my college credit. So I was really focused on getting all of these strenuous tasks finished. I was so looking forward to the end that when it came, I almost forgot to celebrate and be glad about it, but believe me, I was. That day I stayed in school until about 10:45 a.m. finishing up my last tests and turning in my last piles of books. No one was really emotional because we had prom that night and other senior events coming up including the senior baccalaureate service , parent appreciation day, graduation rehearsals and grad night. Regardless of how shy and introvertish I was, I knew that I definitely did not want to miss prom. After I finished my last test, my mom picked me up and we went home. I had a few chores to do, but before that I sat down for the one moment that a girl may or may not get the day of prom. I sat down and fathomed what was actually happening, I had finished my tests, completed my last day of high school, and in a few hours I was headed to prom. Wow. I only had a few minutes to do this because I still had to get ready. After my chores were done, I went off to the hair dresser and got a nice formal hairstyle, next I went to my local JCP store’s make up section to get my make up done. The make up artist chatted with me as she did my make up. There, my aunt from a few cities away met us and bought me this pretty shade of red lipstick. Next we rushed home to complete the next part of the prom process. Thinking back on it, it’s so funny how stressful preparing for prom can be for a girl, but it’s a fun kind of stressful that pays off in the end. I felt neutral, not very nervous, and not very excited, but all in all I was content with the situation. Soon, the doorbell began to ring repeatedly as family members came to the house to see me off. My sister and aunt came up to my room to assist my mom with getting me ready as if I needed three people to dress me, lol! Since it was prom, however, it was perfectly normal and I was truly grateful for their help and more importantly their support. I chose a spicy red dress that had a haltered top and ruffled bottom. It came above just above my knees and had a beautiful floral theme of blossoming roses. As soon as I tried it on, I felt that this was totally me. I accented my dress with gold accessories. When the doorbell rang a final time, it was my prom date and his family. I waited upstairs with my mom, and aunt as someone opened the door. I didn’t see who it was because I was upstairs. After tons and tons of pictures, and one video call from his sister who saw us prepare to leave via cell phone, we were off. The sunset was so pretty that day as we rode downtown. We chatted lightly as his mom and dad discussed the directions on the GPS system and other random topics. He was a quiet person also and I had known him for a long time so it wasn't nerve racking or anything. As we rode downtown to the location where the prom was to be held, we passed two proms from two other schools from the same county as ours. When we pulled up to the doors of the fairly new hotel, my prom date’s father rolled down the truck’s window and a chauffeur greeted us. We didn't see anyone else so we didn't know whether or not we were in the right place. After my prom date’s father asked about whether or not we were in the right place, the chauffeur said yes and we went in. It was before 9:00 which was the time the prom was set to start so we had to wait outside of the door in the hotel‘s upper lobby. We were among the first students to arrive. We checked in and stood outside of the door for a while until I saw a former classmate of mind coming toward us….
To be Continued
Good Day Introverts, Reserved Ones and All Visitors,
Today’s entry is a topic that I had been saying that I would talk about for a long time. Today I want to talk to you about that one event that seems so far away when you enter high school as a freshman. Its that illustrious day that’s portrayed on television sets everywhere as the “best day ever!” Yeah, that day that seems so surreal, that you say to yourself as you get ready, “Am I really here? Am I really about to graduate?” Today I want to talk to you about my experience at prom. I have given you snippets of information about how it was in general and for me, but I have never dedicated an entire post to prom. So here it goes. The official last day of school during my senior year happened to be the same day as prom, May 17th. The last two weeks of high school were very exhausting and monotonous. I spent the last two weeks of school completing standardized tests in order to get college credit. During this time, I was also finishing up one of many very rigorous projects that also went towards my college credit. So I was really focused on getting all of these strenuous tasks finished. I was so looking forward to the end that when it came, I almost forgot to celebrate and be glad about it, but believe me, I was. That day I stayed in school until about 10:45 a.m. finishing up my last tests and turning in my last piles of books. No one was really emotional because we had prom that night and other senior events coming up including the senior baccalaureate service , parent appreciation day, graduation rehearsals and grad night. Regardless of how shy and introvertish I was, I knew that I definitely did not want to miss prom. After I finished my last test, my mom picked me up and we went home. I had a few chores to do, but before that I sat down for the one moment that a girl may or may not get the day of prom. I sat down and fathomed what was actually happening, I had finished my tests, completed my last day of high school, and in a few hours I was headed to prom. Wow. I only had a few minutes to do this because I still had to get ready. After my chores were done, I went off to the hair dresser and got a nice formal hairstyle, next I went to my local JCP store’s make up section to get my make up done. The make up artist chatted with me as she did my make up. There, my aunt from a few cities away met us and bought me this pretty shade of red lipstick. Next we rushed home to complete the next part of the prom process. Thinking back on it, it’s so funny how stressful preparing for prom can be for a girl, but it’s a fun kind of stressful that pays off in the end. I felt neutral, not very nervous, and not very excited, but all in all I was content with the situation. Soon, the doorbell began to ring repeatedly as family members came to the house to see me off. My sister and aunt came up to my room to assist my mom with getting me ready as if I needed three people to dress me, lol! Since it was prom, however, it was perfectly normal and I was truly grateful for their help and more importantly their support. I chose a spicy red dress that had a haltered top and ruffled bottom. It came above just above my knees and had a beautiful floral theme of blossoming roses. As soon as I tried it on, I felt that this was totally me. I accented my dress with gold accessories. When the doorbell rang a final time, it was my prom date and his family. I waited upstairs with my mom, and aunt as someone opened the door. I didn’t see who it was because I was upstairs. After tons and tons of pictures, and one video call from his sister who saw us prepare to leave via cell phone, we were off. The sunset was so pretty that day as we rode downtown. We chatted lightly as his mom and dad discussed the directions on the GPS system and other random topics. He was a quiet person also and I had known him for a long time so it wasn't nerve racking or anything. As we rode downtown to the location where the prom was to be held, we passed two proms from two other schools from the same county as ours. When we pulled up to the doors of the fairly new hotel, my prom date’s father rolled down the truck’s window and a chauffeur greeted us. We didn't see anyone else so we didn't know whether or not we were in the right place. After my prom date’s father asked about whether or not we were in the right place, the chauffeur said yes and we went in. It was before 9:00 which was the time the prom was set to start so we had to wait outside of the door in the hotel‘s upper lobby. We were among the first students to arrive. We checked in and stood outside of the door for a while until I saw a former classmate of mind coming toward us….
To be Continued
With a Peaceful Heart,
Unashamed Introvertish Girl
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About me
My name is Monet A. Stevens, and I am not hiding
anymore. I started this blog back in
2013 to empower introverts to love their unique personalities and encourage
them in a world that praises extroversion. After a long break, I have
decided to return with the beautifully crafted lessons God has taught me since
then and the stronger and wiser mindset that He has given me. This year, and for the rest of my life, I
hope to walk further in my purpose and fulfill my personal and professional passion
to build and strengthen individuals and communities through mass communication. I don’t profess to know everything, but that’s
where God and you come in. No matter who
you are or what your personality type is, I hope that we can continue to grow
together, be our best selves together and encourage one another.
Love,
The Unashamed
Introvertish Girl
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